Posts Tagged ‘family’

We had super strong wind in Southern California last Thursday. I had some Thai food delivered. The smell of burning fire was immediately noticeable as soon as I opened the door when the delivery guy showed up. I thought it was weird that someone had a fire going. The delivery guy commented, “strange that people are doing BBQ in this crazy condition.” BBQ? It turned out that the wind blew down a power line, started a brush fire and burned down a house in Beverly Hills. Yikes.

Few things I want to enter in this online journal before I forget them. First, I want to thank Ted for turning me on to the idea of a vertical swift. I wouldn’t have known about it if he didn’t send me all kinds of info on the various styles of swifts. He truly is a walking knitting encyclopedia. A fiber Guru.

I’ve been knitting quite a bit. I am doing the Four Corner Hat for mom. The crown is made up of four panels. The photo shows the first one that I completed.

You can work the panels separately then sew them together. Or join while you knit. I choose the second method of course. The brim for this style is a slip-stitch pattern, which is much easier than the fair isle pattern for the Nordic style. I am almost done with the third panel of the crown. Yay. Also, the yarn from Blackberry Ridge is very soft and stretchy. Quite enjoyable to knit.

I also started a simple lace project with KnitPicks’ lace weight, Gossamer. I know. I mentioned that I won’t blog about this one because it will be a gift. But this person doesn’t read my blog. So why not?

The pattern is the Candle Flame Shawl that I bought this yarn for. I thought about doing a more challenging pattern. But decided, heck, go with the original plan.

I am also knitting Afghan squares for Marianne’s friend Julie. I am not liking the yarn that I am using. Time to make a trip to A Mano to get something else. Any excuse to make a trip to the LYS, right? :-) But seriously, I also need to get some cotton blend for the next hat project for mom.

Speaking of A Mano, remember the taping of the Men’s night TV segment at A Mano? Yeah. That aired some time ago. And to my horror they used part of my interview. I sounded like Miyagisan in The Karate Kid. Eek. Anyway. A Mano wants to continue Men’s night. Please let them know if you are interested.

Mac users, have you heard of Quicksilver? I discovered it recently. I absolutely love it. It’s an amazing launcher app. Go take a look.

Next topic. I made some changes/improvements to my blogs. First. I decided to end My Project 356 blog. With all the things that have been going on, I stopped taking photos regularly. Keeping a 365 project just doesn’t make sense at this point. I will just keep my Flickr account and make that my photo blog. It is also subscribable if anyone is interested to see my less than amateurish photos. :-)

Speaking of subscribing. I was able to find a way to combine all my blogs plus the Flickr account into one feed. So, if you are interested to read EVERYTHING I post, like my tarot journey, Buddhist practice, and of course, knitting, you can subscribe to this feed. It doesn’t necessary mean that you will get a lot of reading material though. :lol:

I also added a feature called “Subscribe to Comment”. I always wonder if anyone who asks a question on my blog would return to look for a response, or would they expect an email instead? This will solve the dilemma. If you expect a response or want to be notified of new comments, just select to be notified by email. As long as you provide a valid email address, you will receive an email for any future comment to that post.

Do you see that new section in my sidebar that’s powered by Twitter? It’s a social networking thingie that I discovered yesterday. I don’t know if it will be useful or not. But definitely fun to try. It lets you use web, IM or mobile phone to send an update of your status, which gets posted on the network and sent to everyone that you consider a friend. The idea is to let friends follow what each other is doing, strengthening the relationships. It’s also used to send updates like news, etc. Go check it out. Read the TIME article. :-) Let me know if you sign up!

A little update on my mom. Her condition is stable. But she is not able to walk around much. She uses a wheelchair most of the time. And her hair is mostly gone. Thank goodness that I finished the first hat. I was going to post more about the ridiculous things that my sisters did. Yes. Sisters. I don’t just have one wacky sister. I have two. And I don’t mean the one that I am working with to find help for mom. I have another one that’s making the matter more difficult. But I am just too tired of talking about them. I’ll just focus on the positive things for my mother and hope that she gets back some strength so she can have better quality of life.

Yes, Odessa is done. Finally. And just in time too. Mom is losing hair rapidly :-( and I am taking this to her this weekend. I could’ve had this done earlier. But I made a stupid mistake last week when I was feeling frustrated. More on the frustrating situation in a bit. The stupid mistake happened after switching to DPNs. I thought I could use the tail end to identify the beginning of a round as usual. WRONG! The stitches shift with this pattern, and the tail end shifts with them of course. After a few decreasing rounds I thought I made a mistake somewhere due to the position of the tail end. I started picking back because I couldn’t see where the mistake was. (DUH! There was none.) Then I dropped a stitch right next to a YO and couldn’t figure out how to fix it. I was tempted to just rip it and re-knit. Instead I left it alone for two days and was able come back and figure out the fix. Phew! It is now blocking. Not sure if I like the yarn choice though. Originally I wanted a cotton blend for warmer weather but decided to go for a wool blend for elasticity. I didn’t know at the time but it turned out to be the yarn called for in the pattern. I bought Rowan Cashsoft DK. I can’t describe the color. It’s not pink, and it’s not lavender. Sort of in between. One ball is more than enough for the hat.

Now. About that frustrating situation. I can go on talking about this for days, but I’ll try to keep it short. You can probably guess, it’s mom-related. Not just about her condition, but the most frustrating part is about the kind of help she gets at home. My sister, Lily, who lives with mom and not working (Lily, her husband and kid are all living at mom’s.) volunteered to care for mom full time (with compensation of course.) Here are what happened recently:

  1. During the last doctor’s visit I went with mom, we found out that she wasn’t getting enough food and water. Mom ended up going through re-hydration that day. How could this happen when three other individuals live there with her? Especially when one of them is being paid to care for mom full time?
  2. I visited mom last Saturday and found out that she had forgotten to take her meds for 2 days. Nobody thought to check on her. And it happened again a couple of days later.
  3. Something happens every time Lily takes mom to the hospital. I go to the consultations. Leaving the less complicated visits for Lily, who lives with mom and they are only 5 minutes away from the hospital. But somehow she just can’t get things done smoothly. She would be late, or get the priorities all wrong and end up staying hours longer than necessary. No matter how careful I instruct her with these visits. There was one time that she left mom’s purse at the hospital after the chemo. $900 was missing when she picked it up. Something is fishy about that. I won’t elaborate.
  4. More than half of the time when I visited mom I found Lily up in her room, leaving mom by herself downstairs.

OK, I want to stop right here. I just don’t think she is sincere about taking care of mom. Unfortunately this might be another scheme of hers to not work but still get paid. She’s done things like that. But whatever this is it can’t go on. My other sister Angela and I are looking to find someone to stay there full time to look after mom. Meanwhile I am checking up on mom everyday. I’ll also be there for every hospital visit. I’d feel better doing that myself.

:: sigh ::

Onto happier things. I received several packages. Hmm… Am I doing “retail therapy”? Well, these are necessary things. So there! I got a package from Blackberry Ridge. Two hat kits to make more hats for mom. Four Corner Hat (the colorful one) and Swirling Leaves Hat (Vines in the Evening). I can’t wait to get started on these. But I think I need to find something more suitable for warm weather fast. Something using cotton blend yarn. Any idea? Oh, I also got yarn samples for all of their yarn.

This also came in the package. Yes. Spider Queen! I wasn’t kidding when I said I wanted to knit this shawl. :-) Although the yarn, Thistledown Singles, is not the thinnest I’ve ever seen. It will definitely be the thinnest I’ve ever knit with so far. There are 4 hanks of this. Yes. HANKS! That means I have to wind them into balls first. Not to worry. Other things arrived too. :-)

Yes. I also got my cotton cards, ball winder and vertical swift! I love my swift. And my winder and swift love each other too. The winder sits on top of the swift nicely. I can’t wait to see how this is going to work. I will take a few photos of it in action for an update.

I also got a craft light. But you don’t need to see that. Just something to make my knitting universe a little brighter. :-)

Wow! It’s been a while since I last posted. Ever since I got my driver’s license back, I’ve been hitting the road. Guild meeting, yarn shop, the temple, but mostly family New Year get-together and taking mom to the doctor’s. Mom hasn’t been feeling well. She is a lung cancer patient and has been doing different chemo therapies for the last 5 years. Less aggressive kinds so that she could go about doing things almost as usual. But lately the tumors started increasing in size faster. The doctor made a decision to try more aggressive treatment to get them under control. We are keeping positive, but it is very scary and worrisome this time. I especially can’t stand thinking how scared she is right now. We are keeping positive. We are keeping positive.

I’ve been doing more knitting on “The Sweater Workshop” sampler. It’s almost done and I can’t wait to start knitting the real thing. Here’s a photo of the recent work. Click for larger picture with descriptions.

I am surprised that I could do stranding holding yarn in both hands. I mean the knitting was going smoothly at the end of the two-color pattern. I thought I’d have a terrible time or something. It did make my hands really tense though. They will eventually relax with practice I am sure. Can’t wait to do more!

Above is yarn for new projects. The one in the back is KnitPicks’ Gossamer, 100% Merino, lace weight. The color is Leprechaun. What timing! I plan to knit a lace stole with it. Pattern not yet determined. The Mission Falls are 100% Merino, Superwash. These will be for a secret project so you won’t see any of the knitting until they are done and given away. :-)

Shoutouts: Marianne, I hope the divot is healing nicely. And no, no more New Year celebration. The party is over after all the New Year money was given out. :-) MonkeyGurrl, looks like you got your own partying going on right now. :-) Micah, yep, he did fall asleep at the table. Sitting up the whole time actually. Amazing. Jane, Happy Belated Chinese New Year. Hmmm… how long did we celebrate New Year in the past? It went on for days I think. You know that parents always wait to give out the “Red Envelope” until late anyway. Kids would stay up for that. :-) Cat, thank you for the compliments! :-)

A special note. Kathy just posted an update of her progress on knitting Sharon Miller’s “The Princess Shawl“. Incredible work! I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to knit it, but I hope to get a copy of the pattern when it’s available again.

My poor nephew. He and his mom flew in from Taiwan to celebrate the Lunar New Year with grandma. Hours of traveling and the time change gave him little chance to sleep. This is what happened. Click for large.

Here are some photos to show you the kind of attitude Tristan was giving me when I tried to take his pictures.

Tristan giving some attitude
“Don’t point that thing at me.”

Tristan giving some attitude
“I said no. Get that away from me.”

Tristan giving some attitude
“I’ve had enough of this.”