Archive for February, 2007

Tale of a Sleepy Prince


2007
02.20

My poor nephew. He and his mom flew in from Taiwan to celebrate the Lunar New Year with grandma. Hours of traveling and the time change gave him little chance to sleep. This is what happened. Click for large.

Lotus Blossom Shawl Gifted


2007
02.18

Happy Lunar New Year! The family had a quick dinner last night for New Year’s Eve. More family will arrive today from Taiwan, and we’ll have another dinner celebration in a restaurant. Anyway, I was able to present the shawl to my mother. She hasn’t been feeling well lately, but I think she really liked it. She also remarked that it was her favorite shade of red. Phew! My sister Lily said, “for me, I want golden yellow.” Yes. That was her way of telling me to make her one. Not asking. Telling. OK, more like demanding. Wait another year sister! :lol:

Here are a few pictures. First is one I took right after blocking. I wasn’t so sure if there would be willing models to pose for pictures. Mom wasn’t feeling well, so I am only showing one of her walking away. I got my little niece to pose for me, but she couldn’t stay put for too long. :-D

Pattern: Lotus Blossom Shawl by Fiddlesticks Knitting, purchased on Blackberry Ridge.
Yarn: KnitPicks’ Palette. Fingering weight, 2-ply.
Needle: KnitPicks’ Options, US Size 8.

I used little more than two balls of Palette. The resulting fabric drapes really really well. It is stretchy and bounces back in shape. I like it.

Lotus Blossom Shawl Blocking


2007
02.16

Yay! I got it done! I can’t believe that the size turned out to be about the size indicated in the pattern. Phew! It looks like it will have a good drape too. I can’t wait to have mom try it on. Oh, I forgot to mention earlier. Kathy was absolutely right about the bobble bind-off. It took me hours to get it done. I didn’t like how the bobbles turned out. But blocking seemed to have made them look better.

Hmmm… Do I want to spray starch on this?? The idea doesn’t appeal to me.

Lotus Blossom Shawl Pre-Blocking


2007
02.16

Looking at it now, I think the shawl can reach it’s intended size after blocking. Crossing my fingers.

Red is still very hard on the camera. OK, off to do the blocking. Taking some time off from work to get this done for mom.

So Had It With DMV!


2007
02.15

I want to SCREAM!!!

The good news is that I got my driver’s license taken cared of finally. But it was truly a hellish experience!!! I took THREE trips to the DMV. Each time a horrible experience. Don’t get me wrong. There were nice people there. Like the managers and the lady that gave me the written test. But the ones at the counters and the so-called “information desk”… JERKOS!!!

I called DMV on the phone about not receiving my driver’s license. On the second call I was informed that I should head down to a local DMV office and acquire an extension. Then update my name at Social Security to match DMV’s database. So first trip. The woman at the so-called “information desk” did not know how to handle my issue. She gave me a dirty look then handed me an application to fill out. I thought, “why do I need to apply for a license again to get an extension?” I filled it out and handed it to her. She took one look then printed out a number, handed it to me, but leaving the application in front of her. I took the number and started walking away. Then I heard a scolding voice, “you have to take the application with you!” Well, aren’t you a friendly bunch?! How would I know if I should take the application when you only handed me a piece of paper with a number on it? How would I know if you didn’t expedite documents yourself?

I took the paper and went to sit down. I got called. Went to a window. Handed the paper over and explained my situation. Another puzzled face on the guy. He didn’t understand what I wanted. So he went ahead and processed the application. Asked me to pay. I was thinking, “why do I need to pay for an extension? I already paid for the renewal?” I paid. He took a new photo of me then sent me to take a written test. I felt that it was really strange then. I took the test anyway. I passed it. But the test lady didn’t know where to send me next. So she called a manager. The manager came and I had to explain my situation again. She told me it would be easier if I just get a license with the name on the social security card. I told her that I would have to change everything else that I had. She then filled out a tiny piece of paper of 60-day extension. So, the fee and the test were not necessary. No one offered to give me a refund. I was too fed-up to stay and ask for it.

Second trip. Because I wasn’t able to get my hand on my certificate of naturalization (at my mom’s and she wasn’t there.) I decided to get my license in the Chinese name and use my passport for ID. I went to DMV. A different person at the so-called “information desk”. A snob. He decided that I couldn’t get one that way. I explained that a manager told me I could last time. So he sent me to another manager. I had to tell my story again and requested to get my license. He wouldn’t let me. He said that because I was using another name, he couldn’t possibly give me a license in a different name. I have to get the name changed at SS office. Come back when the computer system reflects the change. So I got a different story from the second manager. I couldn’t get my license easier if I went with my Chinese name. I left.

Third trip. I had my name changed at SS office. They told me the system would be updated the next day. I waited one extra day then went to the DMV. Same snobby guy at the so-called “information desk”.

Me: Hi, I just got my name changed at the SS office to match the DMV record. I am here to get my driver’s license.
DMV Guy stared at me and handed me an application to fill out.
Me: Oh, I’ve done that. I even double paid the DMV. Here are the papers to show my payment and my written test result.
DMV Guy: You have to fill another application out.
Me: Oh, your manager told me all I needed to do was to get my name updated to get my card issued. (Pointing at the manager behind him.)
DMV Guy: (Not even turning around to look.) You are not going to listen to me.
Me: I am just trying to tell you that I’ve gone through the process. I have papers showing that.
DMV Guy: You are not listening. Just take a number. You’ll be back to fill out the application.

I was shocked and outraged! He refused to listen to me but told me that I was the one not listening. I had receipt of payment, a printout proving an application in progress, plus a test result. Why should I go through the same things again? To pay them a third time? I was angry. I almost didn’t hear them call my number. I went to the window and told my story once again.

DMV Woman: You need to show me your social security card.
Me: That’s not what your managers said. (Pointing to the manager again. She did not bother to turn around and look either.) They told me to just come in when the computer system updated the name.
DMV Woman, looking at the monitor: I need to see your social security card.
Me: Are you saying that the system wasn’t updated? I was told that it would had been updated yesterday.
DMV Woman was silent.
Me, pointing at the manager again: Just ask your manager. I talked to him last time.

Again, she did not bother to turn around. She worked on the computer for a few moments. The printer made some noise. Without explaining anything she handed me my interim license and said, “here you go.” I said, “thank you very much,” and walked away incredibly angry. When I was walking pass the snob at the so-called “information desk” CB asked me, “did you get it.” I said, “yes, I got it.” I hope the snob heard me.

That place sucks! I feel that they intend on denying people instead of trying to help people find solutions. Why are those people working there if they do not like helping people? They should find other jobs that do not require human contacts. And to think that we taxpayers pay for them to be there! That just makes me angry.

OK. I am not really angry now. CB reminded me to be mindful. Even my cards told me to stay balanced. In the future, I’ll find another DMV to go to. Will that help? I don’t know.

To My Sweetie


2007
02.14

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Blue Sky


2007
02.13

I stepped out of that “unhappy place” this morning. I felt happy. I felt free. A weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I could breathe. “The place” didn’t let me down this time. I looked up and saw a beautiful blue sky. I was enjoying it. I felt alive! So I took a picture of it with my camera phone.

Some of you have heard me saying that I wasn’t able to drive for a while. I didn’t explain why. Let’s see. Where do I begin… Well, it all started when the law began to require that the name on one’s driver’s license must match the one on the social security card. Well, it so happened that mine had my Chinese name on it. Everything else had the English name. Why? When I came to the States loooong time ago, my father’s lawyer applied for the SS card before I decided to use an English name. I never thought that I needed to make a name change on the SS card since I was able to pay taxes and get credit cards using it without any problem. Not until when the time came to renew my license.

Weeks after sending in my renewal I still had not received anything. Not a word. The check was cleared. But nothing came. I called them and they said that they would try processing it again. Few more weeks passed by and still no words. Not a letter. I called DMV again, and this time I was told that I needed to make a name change at Social Security. So the ordeal started. Long story short. I made two trips to the DMV and four trips to Social Security. Each time getting different information. I even paid the DMV one more time and took another written test for no apparent reason at all. Finally a lady at the SS office told me that I absolutely needed the certificate of naturalization to continue the process. I looked everywhere in the house without luck. My last hope was that it was in a box somewhere at my mother’s. Just my luck, my mother decided to have a long stay in Taiwan at the time. So I waited and she finally came home. I went over and BINGO! It was in a box of my stuff. I guess I thought I was OK with a passport and neglected the certificate. So speed forward. I got my name changed at SS office today!

For months I felt like I was under some dark clouds. It wasn’t so bad that I couldn’t handle it. I practice mindfulness after all. But the situation took a lot of energy out of me. Plus, at the same time our company was going through major changes that left me with more responsibilities. But today the dark clouds disappeared. Today was great! I can drive again. Well, not yet. Soon. I will be able to go to places. Yarn store, the temple, S&B! And the best is that I feel that I am legally ME again!

Anyway, my recent “identity crisis” inspired me to do another Comic Life piece. Warning! Silly, tasteless comic follows. By now you should know that it is not about current immigration issue. :-)